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Family Services Expanded in Retreat's New McIver Center In a continuing commitment to help the families impacted by addiction, The Retreat will open the McIver Family Center June 30, under the direction of new staff member, Ellie Hyatt. Ellie originally helped The Retreat develop its "Family Day," a popular program offered to help families better understand the disease of alcoholism and its impact on the family. Hyatt will join The Retreat's staff as Family Program Coordinator and will lead two extended weekend family retreats each month, from Thursday night through Sunday. She will also be available to individuals and groups for spiritual direction.
"Alcoholism is a disease that affects the whole family," says Hyatt. "If somebody in the family is addicted, the people who live with that person and the extended family are all affected by that behavior, and if someone seeks recovery, family relationships often suffer if the family doesn't get involved in the recovery, too."
The new extended weekend retreats will help family members and loved ones begin their own healing by better understanding the disease of alcoholism and drug dependency, family dynamics and the process of recovery embodied in the Twelve Steps of Al-Anon. Not only does this help the family members; it also supports the long-term sobriety of the person struggling with addiction.
"The initial goal is to help the family members understand what it is that they've been affected by and then to help them seek a solution for themselves. We try to let them know that there is help available and what that help is." However, Hyatt points out, that recovery involves more than information and awareness. Recovery requires personal change through a spiritual process and that is one of the key strengths of The Retreat's approach.
"What makes us unique is that we really are committed to the spiritual model of recovery," says Hyatt, while being careful to point out this is not the same as promoting religion. "So many people have had religious experiences that have not been helpful . . . but a spiritual approach is based on living your life by spiritual principles. We don't tell you what to believe. We give you a model for living based on the spiritual principles found in the Twelve Steps." Hyatt has been following the Twelve Step principles in her life since 1993. She worked for 12 years as a social worker, for 10 years taught communication and listening classes and for the past two years has served as a spiritual director, completing her training at the Christos Center last spring. She will join The Retreat staff May 1 and expects the first weekend family retreat to be offered June 30.
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